✨ Purpose: To anchor yourself in who you are becoming, without rushing to define it.

🌬 Preparation:

– Find a quiet space.

– Light a white candle.

– Place a mirror in front of you or keep your eyes closed.

– Bring a soft scarf or shawl to wrap around your shoulders.

🕊 Step 1 – The Arrival:

Place your hands over your heart. Breathe slowly.

Say softly:

“I am not lost.
I am arriving.
Not into a new life,
but into my own.”

🪞 Step 2 – The Witnessing:

Look at your reflection, or imagine your face glowing in light.

Say:

“I am becoming the one I have always been,
beneath the forgetting.”
“I don’t have to know exactly who I am –
I only need to stay present with who is returning.”

🫀 Step 3 – The Embrace:

Wrap the shawl around your shoulders.

Place one hand on your heart, one on your belly.

Whisper:

“I welcome myself as I am, in becoming.
I release the need to be complete.
I trust the unfolding.
I trust my becoming.”

🕯 Step 4 – Closing:

Blow out the candle gently.

Say:

“I am the light I was seeking.
I do not chase. I receive.
I am enough, even in transition.”

✨ Affirmation:

“I don’t need to be finished to be real.
I don’t need to be certain to be true.
I am becoming. And that is holy.”