Tag facing inner blocks
Sometimes, the questions we ask —
“Why is my life not working?”
“Why do I hurt even when I try so hard?” —
lead us beyond the visible.
TOOL: The Question That Breaks the Spell
I did everything they said.
I was kind. I was careful. I was strong. I waited. I stayed.
But the life I built from those instructions… doesn’t belong to me.
Sometimes my life doesn’t work…
not because I’m not trying,
but because I’m still living by old agreements
I never even remember signing.
We’ve looked at pain.
We’ve named patterns.
We’ve stripped away stories that never belonged to us.
But now…
Now, something else begins.
We admire strong people.
We praise them. Depend on them. Expect from them.
But we rarely ask: what does that strength cost them?
Some people mess up their lives because they don’t care.
But some people hurt because they care too much.